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female
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26-29,
*issconfused2013
writes:John and i are really good friends. He's like "big brother" to me. John has a girlfriend. off and on relationship. john and i talk and hang out just like any other friends. but when were hanging out he'll try to kiss me, and he's giving me signals that he wants to go out with me. Recently he broke up with his girlfriend. Now i baby sit his little brother. and while it's just me and the baby in his house, he works. and when he's at work on purpose he'll come over just to hang with me. i'm feeling uncomfortable. i just want him to be my best friend. my brother who's always there for me. and i've tried to see other guys but i keep comparing them to john. ughhh what's going on?
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (18 July 2010):
 I don't want to tell you what you do and don't feel but did you ever think maybe you and him have been like that for some long you can't think of him any other way? The fact that you compare other guys you date to him says alot. Perhaps you don't want to go for him because it could reck everything you have for him now. He clearly feels more. If you don't it's time to nicely let him know how you feel as well as letting him know you still want him as your bestfriend/ brother. but ask yourself this; What do you not like about him? & What keeps you from liking/ dating him.
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