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writes:I have got a problem with my boyfriend. He is 2 years older than me and had a few girlfriends. But I had no boyfriend before. But I don´t know how to say this to him. And I think that he wants more than just a kiss next time.What should I do in this situation?
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reader, dude81109  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 im am a guy and im 12 im not new at dating. comeing from a guy i want to do a lot of things with my girl freind but i dont think she is ready if he does try to do these things with you and your not ready dont do them i say if you want to do more with him its your desicion
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reader, towapa  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Yeah, what the other said! If he actually cared so much about you, then he wouldn't want to rush you into it! Try and explain to him that you just don't feel quite ready yet, and if he STILL doesn't understand, then it's time you dump him. People like him are not worth your time, and you deserve better. So, you make him wait for it, and you'll find out if he likes you or not...
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reader, AskEve +, writes (13 February 2007):
 YOU are in charge of what happens regarding the "I think he wants more" bit. Morals are a great thing in this day and age but they're slipping fast. Don't EVER be cajouled or pressured into doing anything you don't feel ready to do. Let him know you're new at this dating lark and you want to take things slowly with him and get to know him more as a person before becoming seriously involved.
If he has any feelings for you at all, he'll respect how you feel and move things down a notch to go at your pace rather than lose you by putting too much pressure on you. If he insists in trying to push you that bit further, drop him like a ton of bricks! He's not for you and is only out for what he can get from you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 February 2007):
 He can jolly well be satisfied with just a kiss. What a boyfriend wants and what he gets are two different things. You can restrict it to just a kiss if that's the way you feel right now. He can take it or leave it. If you have resort to sex to keep this boyfriend then he needs to be shown the door. If he's a keeper then he'll hang around for that very special kiss from you. Good luck, honey!
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