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I'm looking for kinky sex ideas!

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Question - (1 April 2008) 15 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm going out with a wonderful open minded guy. We have a great sex life which is quite varied and experimental but there's always more things to try which is why I'm posting here.

Does anyone have any recommendations for kinky things to do together?

I guess I'm looking for ideas like toys/inanimate objects that can be used as toys/lesser known sexual acts... anything really!

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A female reader, kinkykel United States +, writes (7 October 2011):

kinkykel agony aunti have been with my man for 4 years and about a year after dating i wanted to try new and crazy things thank gosh he is opened minded as well. i was a lil worried at 1st cause i new what i wanted i just didnt trust any1 enough to let go. now i have more toys, porn and wild ideas i didn't even know i had. Try cyberskin it is so good for you and him make sure you keep up the clean instructions or it will be damaged. porn is also nice you both have to choose together to make it work. swings are a + don't hold back either of you it may seem silly at first but telling each other whats on your mind is KEY DON'T HOLD BACK you'd be surprised how much your sex life changes for the better.

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A female reader, eadams789 United States +, writes (25 September 2010):

try bringing food into the picture. have him slam you with a pealed cucumber and eat it after. have some lemon and salt by the night stand if he wants. i know it sounds weird. but its actually really fun.

also preparing food during sex can be fun. try placing all the stuff to make a sandwich in the counter, sit him up on it and go down on him while making a sandwich on his stomach. my boyfriend loved it when i did it. then after he eats he can have you for dessert :)

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A female reader, thekinkyone United States +, writes (1 January 2010):

thekinkyone agony auntThere's a little ebook online that has more than 50+ sex ideas in the form of coupons that you can exchange with your partner. There's also 2 games that are included to get the foreplay started. One of them is the dice game that mulattoman wrote above. Here's the website if your interested www.kinkylovegames.com

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A female reader, haley92 United States +, writes (16 August 2009):

crisco parties are fun but try playing games or watching dirty movies . this is what the internet is for! go to ask .com im sure u will find a butt load of ideas!

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A male reader, mulattoman United States +, writes (15 July 2008):

mulattoman agony auntThere are a few ideas I have on the top of my head, but it requires you to spend some money.

Play "dress up" and role playing –teacher and student, nurse and patient, French maid, or even slave and master. If you are not into role playing you can just simply purchase lingerie and giving him a lap dance to start things up. A lot of men have fantasies of just having sex with a girl who has long panties on and sexy shoes. You can even buy HIM sexy clothes.

You should talk to him about it, and try taking him to an adult store to browse your possibilities. If you’re not comfortable with sex toys, you can use some simple things: love cuffs (hand cuffs) to bind your partner, or silk clothe to tie each other down and have your ways.

Turn it into a game. Get some dice, and for each number right down a sexual act you fantasize about. Roll the die, and whatever number it lands on you do it. For example, get chocolate syrup or whipped cream and each number represents a body part you lick the topping off of. You can even buy games online such as "Pleasure Island."

The possibilities are endless! Good luck and I hope you have fun.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (2 April 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntGET A BOTTLE OF CRISCO OIL, AND a waterproof room...

And hire a flipping maid to clean up afterwards...

Have you EVER tried to clean a liberal amount of oil off of a tile surface? IT'S NOT PRETTY!!! *but fun*

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008):

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Thank you for your responses so far, sorry for being vague in my initial question.

Haha I do like that mars bar idea. Some things we've done so far are sex in public places, toys for both him and me, prostate massaging, some things of a.. golden nature (though I'm not looking for any more ideas like that!). I love giving him oral so any suggestions you have on that DoubleM would be most welcome.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (2 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntCrisco parties, are they related in any way to nasal sex????

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (2 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntBirdy, you certainly owe us an explanation.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (1 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

you need to tell us first what you mean? What have you tried till now?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

Have you tried laying a shower curtain over the bed or floor and covering your body in baby oil for some slippery, slidy sex?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (1 April 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIt's kind of hard to suggest kinky ideas without knowing what you two are already doing or have enjoyed. I've never bothered much with "toys" but oral sex can certainly be very kinky in many ways and could fill a book. To many, just the idea of it is kinky. I would like "birdy" to tell us more about those Crisco Parties. grin

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

Crisco Party! Birdy, you naughty, naughty girl! lol

Poster, there is always a "Mars Bar" party as was suggested in one unforgettable, more renowned posting on this site. Then there's the famous "Spit roast' party but that involves two guys and one girl. Whichever you fancy, hun. Go to the search button above, and check it out. Have fun.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

try haveing sex in different places in the house maybe...

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (1 April 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntGreat topic for April Fool's Day. Have you ever had a Crisco Party? They are great fun - but one hell of a mess to clean up...

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