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lovecrazygb
writes:Hi i am 13 and in love with three of my teachers and i don't know what to do. I am in love with my maths teacher BD and I don't know what 2 do. I want to tell him but then I will not be able to do my work.I really like him. i am in love with my yr 7 maths teacher and i am in love with my sypply teacher. BD (maths teacher) i have dreams about me and him in bed etc what should i do. i have these dreams and i can't do my work because of the dreams i am having about me and my maths teacher BD in bed together please help
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reader, lovecrazygb +, writes (1 April 2008):
lovecrazygb is verified as being by the original poster of the question i don't know if they apply to a supply teacher
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): do the same rules in teacher-pupil relationships if the teacher is a supply ?
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reader, lovecrazygb +, writes (19 March 2008):
lovecrazygb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthks 2 every 1 who helped me thanks a lot.
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reader, lovecrazygb +, writes (15 March 2008):
lovecrazygb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit's not infatuation or a 'crush' because i care and love him 2 much. plz help. it would be much helpful
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reader, lovecrazygb +, writes (15 March 2008):
lovecrazygb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u 2 every1 that gave good advice
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reader, lovecrazygb +, writes (15 March 2008):
lovecrazygb is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni love my maths teacher BD. ilike the other two not love the other two please help me i don't know what to do. my friends where going to tell my maths teacher BD but after they listen to me they said they wasn't going to tell him. i told them that if they told him i someone heard and got the right idea he could lose his job. i care about him so much please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): Why are there so many posts here from young teenage girls like this one who say they are in love with their male teachers? Can any of you women here shed any light as to why these girls are attracted to men who are so much older than they are? What is causing this kind of thing to happen?Are you not attracted to boys your own age? Seems like you should find them more sexually attractive and have sexual fantasies and dreams about them instead of men who are so much older than you. I would say to pursue boys your own age or closer in age to you and focus on them instead of your teachers.
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reader, honestheart +, writes (15 March 2008):
If you say you 'love' all three at once then it's infatuation, not love. I know that at this age it seems different but i had different 'crushes' on my teachers at school. You must know nothing can ever come of these crushes and if they do then your teachers are breaking the law. Having had these crushes myself, please wait until you're ready for a proper relationship before having fatasies about those you can't have
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reader, vicctoriaaa +, writes (14 March 2008):
 i don't think it's love, i think its just infatuation really.
if it's distracting you so much, ask to change classes, or even schools if its bothering your schoolwork so much.
maybe try to like focus on people more your own age as well so you can try to forget about your teachers.
hope i helped :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): i think it's truly a phase, and it'll pass with time.
just focus on your schoolwork for now.
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reader, core_confusion +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Ok, there's one simple answer here, as much as you dont want to hear this. It can never happen for so many reasons. Having a crush is a natural aprt of adolesence. And thats what this is. It may seem like love but I would guess that its just a crush. I guess most of us had atleast one teacher at school that we had a crush on, but in reality, there's nothing that can happen. If anything did happen, your teacher would be breaking the law and would certainly be risking their job. That means that there is no way that they would go there and rsk so much. All I can give as far as advice goes is that fantasies are healthy and normal but need to remain just that. If you have feelings that you want to explore, I'm sure that there are other people of your own age that you could explore them with.
There is so much pressure to grop up these days, resist it a little and take the time to explore at a slow pace. Above all, dont do anything to risk your grades at school, sure it seems pretty boring at times, especially if you cant concentrate for this reason - but your grades will have a big inluence on your job choice and the options available to you. As hard as it is to concentrate on your education, thats what you ought to do in my opinion. Good Luck for the future
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 When you are this age, it is common to like more than one person. I had a friend in middle school, and she liked more than one person. These crushes will pass, in time. Btw, what is a sypply teacher? Did you mean your "supply teacher?" And if so, what kind of teacher is that?
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