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writes:We live far away from eachother so we talk on msn. He has a girlfriend, but i am totally in love with him, i'm so determined to get him. I think he feels the same way because he has told me he likes me and would be with me if he could.I want to tell him i love him, but i really don't know how to say it. What if he freaks out and i ruin everything?I am so jealous of his girlfriend, and when i tell him about other guys flirting with me, he does actually get jealous.I just feel like we're meant to be together, i know it sounds stupid. Am i going crazy? I can't get him out of my head
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reader, haether +, writes (5 June 2006):
I am currently on the other side of this situation. I was left for someone living 2 hours by plane away, because they were good mates and they fell for each other. DON'T DO IT you'll kill his girlfriend. if you and him want to be together, don't do anything until he leaves her. if he isn't willing to leave her then it isn't woth it. do you really want to be the 'other woman'? it isn't fair to her, someone who has done nothing wrong to have someone trying to lure away her boyfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): I think you should put yourself in his girlfriends shoes. How would you feel if some girl was on the internet trying to "get him" and planning to tell him she loved him?
Unless something is developing between you, and he is unhappy in his relationship and you think it possible that he will break up to be with you I think you need to stop pursuing him.
He is with someone else. You need to accept that.
Delete him off MSN, get out and spend some proper time with your friends. Find a man who is available.
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