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I'm in love with my close girl friend

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Question - (26 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female Philippines age 30-35, *at writes:

we are on the same dormitory but diiferent rooms. we started hanging out until one day she wants to sleep beside me every night. i was used to it that she always sleeps besides me but then as months past by she told me that she don't want to anymore. well, i have some feeling that she was falling for me but i really didn't mind it. eventhough she doesn't sleep at my bed anymore, we regularly talk, go out and just hang out. until one day she texted me that she liked me before and now her feeling for me are all gone. i never really thought that she would fall for me because she was straight and she had a lot of crushes to some boys and even she even told them and even cried for them.

well after all that shocking news, i was just calm and happy because i really cared for her. i am even doubting if i really love her as a friend or something more like a friend. a year past by and i haven't really told her about how i feel towards her because it's kinda complicated to tell her. now, after our summer class was over she was planning on going out of the dormitory.

-i don't really have a question for that story but i just want comments or reactions..^_^

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

It might have just been an exploratory period she was going through that has now ended, so don't take it to personally it probably wasn't any fault of your own just put it down to life experience.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

hang in there hun. if she had any feeling for you the will show. if not dont give up there are so many other womwn out there that are looking for a nice young lady to be with. i am a gay male / crossdresser and i have not found mr right yet but i have not given uphope yet.he is out there somewhere. i have not always been gay , i was married up until recently and dated women all my life. but the true me is that i feel i am a woman trapped in a mans body, so i have crossdressed since i was little and felt like a woman. so one day i decided to try something different and my wife caught me dressed in my favorite lingerie giving another man a blowjob. my wife at first accepted my crossdressing and kinda liked it but then she said she was getting tired of it and did not want to be with someone who wore the same clothes that she did. she wanted me to change but that was the true me . and then she caught me giving that man a blowjob and she flipped and that was end of our marriage. one day as soon as can sve enough money i will have my reassignment surgery to become the woman i want to be. enough about me, hun hang in there and dont give up.

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