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Im in love with her but Im to shy to talk to her! How can I speak to her ?

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Question - (1 April 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2007)
A male Nigeria age 41-50, *kelionwu ekene writes:

i am in love with a girll and will like to marry her but my problem is that im shy and whenever i met her i loose the confidence to speak to her. tell me what to do

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (2 April 2007):

home_land agony aunthello,

tell her, you know when i look into your eyes i lose my words and lose my name ,i do try to tell you something again and again,oh my god it didnt work ,i ask my self is this love or joyfull pain ,befor i slleep i talk to my self tomorow you tell her, that you love her and your love did make you sane.

good luck

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A female reader, blondie1994 United States +, writes (1 April 2007):

You should build up your confidence and just ask her. The worst she can do is say no, and there are plenty more fish in the sea. :)

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A female reader, Melanne United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2007):

Melanne agony auntIf you really love her then you need to tell her that you love her and be up front about it.

You don't give much information away so this is going to be a short post.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (1 April 2007):

kenny agony auntWithout knowing to much about your situation, whether she is someone you work with, a neigbour, or someone you just see out and about. All you can do is gradually build up a friendship with her bit by bit. Complement her whenever you see her, do her a favour. Some light flirtatious signals such as eye contact, touches, go along way. Keep this up for a while then ask her if she fancies going out for a drink with you one night.

Hope this helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007):

Does she speak to you? If so then do you speak back to her. I know that you are shy but if she speaks to you, asks you questions, and you don't reply to her then she is going to think that you are being rude and ignoring her. Just be brave and talk to her. Good luck.

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