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writes:I'm kind of in a mess right now... It all started 2 years ago when I came to this school I'm in right now... I fell in live with a boy in my class, we spoke a lot and sort of became friends. He went to Portugal to study there for a while and I never had the strength to tell him how I feel about him. In the meanwhile I started going out with someone 9 years older then me (yes... 9 years, of course that sound kind of stupid but we understand each other very well, he takes me for who I am, he never told me anything bad, I really fell in love with him and I know that he loves me. This year the boy from Portugal came back, we are sitting together in class, listening music and talking all the time. Just a week ago he had a big birthday party, I drank a little but he didn't drink at all. We danced and spoke the whole night. I'm afraid that I still have got feelings for him and he doesn't even know that, but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend now. It sound ridiculous but I'm in love with 2 boys ... I'm really very confused ;( I don't know what to do! Can someone please help me!
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reader, Anonymous_NF + ♥, writes (26 October 2009):
Anonymous_NF is verified as being by the original poster of the question I sort of agree with Little Miss Hope - maybe the first boy in only a crush but how do I get over it?
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reader, CaringGuy  + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
The truth is you don't love either of them, otherwise you would be able to choose in a second. I think you should move on from both and find someone who you will really want to commit to.
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reader, Little Miss Hope +, writes (25 October 2009):
I think the first guy is more of a crush...n I think u really like him coz u kno u'l probably won't get to be with him...as for the other guy altho he's 9 yrs older, u are over 18 and therefor can do wat u want, my partner is 6 years older than me but its good to have someone to bring out my mature side...anyway ask urself if the guy ur with is gona last coz if ur havin these feelings for the first guy, it clearly shows tht ur no longer in love with ur partner, don't srting them both along or it will all end in tears. Good luck xx
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