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I'm in a relationship, but I'm attracted to another girl and can't stop thinking about her.

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Question - (10 December 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been with my girlfriend over 2 years, and whilst the relationship is going ok, our sex life isn't (not as frequent or adventure as there used to be) and lately I've found myself being attracted to a girl who works in a local store.

I've never spoken to this girl, and I get a glimpse of her for maybe 30 seconds everyday on my lunch break, but I can't stop thinking about her. Seeing her makes me feel great and of the tines when we've smiled at each other it's all I can think about for hours later!

 Even though I'm in a relationship I'm thinking how I'd introduce myself to her and maybe get to know her better.

The whole of our relationship I've never been attracted to anyone else, and I don't know what I can do to get this girl off my mind. I've tried not going in the shop she works in, but that just makes me think about her even more.

Anyone else ever been in the same position?

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A male reader, lakers_lover09 United States +, writes (11 December 2011):

I and many other ppl have been in ur situation. Its human nature to want others sometimes, it how we comtrol tht desire tht defines our love for our significant other. What do you want from this girl ? If she is wat u want, then pursue her, but do it after u have left ur gf cause no person wants to b lied to or hurt. If u decide u want this gir make sure its somethin u can deal with. This girl mite seem great cause of her pretty smile. But once u get to kno her she might be a disaster. So the right answer here is do wat u thimk is best for u AND ur gf, but choose wise

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