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I'm hesitant and shy to contact her but now sure how to approach her. In my culture I should have someone introduce her to me

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Question - (9 June 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2015)
A male India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi - I have a girl in my office and i think i'm attracted towards her, Because i like watching her, but i'm hesitant and shy to contact her, as she belongs to a different process and team and we do not have any common friend too who can introduce me to her. So please suggest good ways to approach her.

Thank you,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2015):

If you work at the same company, is there a lunchroom or breakroom where you may be able to talk while you are both on break?

I think you should send her a note (not electronic, a real, handwritten one!) by putting it on her desk or in her mail recepticle if she has one. It should tell her you think she is attractive and you would like to get to know her better, and ask her if she would like to have lunch, or coffee with you during a break. If she doesn't know who you are, you can tell her where you will be sitting and when, and what you will be wearing and see if she shows up.

Might be a cool story to tell the kids if you end up together someday!

Let us know how it goes, best of luck!

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (10 June 2015):

TrancedRhythmEar agony auntBe a man. Approach her. Smile.Make eye contact and just say hello. She will smell confidence and friendliness.. thats all you need to do to break ice with women. Get over your shyness and nervousness it is not masculine and women HATE it.

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