im 17 and im talking to this one boy that im truely in love with and last night we got into it because he strongly believes that i dont love him and my feelings that i tell him, that i have for him aren't real. all because he ask me if i wanted a boyfriend and i said no, only because he said he didnt want a girlfriend. so now he says in fake that im just wasting his time and he wish he never met me and fuck the always and forever with me that hes gone. before all of this he would tell me that he needs time away from me to see if he was making the right choice being with me, he'll say he doesnt want to be with me then he says he do and at the end of the day i always came back to him. i cried on the phone tring to explain myself but he didnt want to listen. what should i do, i really want him back.
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reader, MissWalsh x +, writes (30 March 2009):im 18, & i've been in relationships & known lads like that.
i think this lad is just messing around with yur feelings & while he seems to need re-assuring about how you feel about him, he should believe what you tell him first time around.
he seems to be picking & choosing when he wants to have anything to do with you & talk to you, so now its yur turn to do exactly what he's doing. don't make an effort to talk to him unless he talks to you first, he'll realise he can't mess around anymore & you'll finally find out what he thinks of you & what he wants.
i hope it works out babe x
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