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30-35,
*ilver Angel
writes:Dear Cupid!It's hard for me to talk about it, but I think it might be the only way that can help me now.I'm 18 years old and have a relationship with a really amazing guy that is 27 years old. It's lasting for over 2 months now and we really enjoy doing everything together.About a week ago, he wanted to finger me and we wanted to have sex (I'm still a virgin). But sadly it wouldn't work (used lubricant too and he said I even would've been wet enough).2 days later, I went to see my gyno and she examined me. She asked me if I ever used tampons and I said no, because I couldn't get one in.She said that I'm too tight for it and that I'm one of the very few women having troubles because of a too small vagina.She added that she can help me by stretching everything but it hurts so much I have to cry every time. I'm not scared or tensed or anything like that.Even if he sais he loves me no matter what, I'm afraid he'll break up with me.Would you have any tips what I could do or how I could get any sexual experiences when the things mentioned above wouldn't help?I'm grateful for any answer I'll get and thanks in advance!
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reader, Silver Angel +, writes (21 June 2012):
Silver Angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yes, I told him what the doctor said.
And also my doctor was talking to me about that topic for about 3 hours if I remember correctly, explaining the risks and everything that is involved.
Thank you for that helpful answer! :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 June 2012):
 did your doctor discuss the concept of ongoing vaginal dilation with you?
http://www.vaginismus.com/
basically you start out with a small slender dilator and you would use it to stretcht he vagina. you would work up to larger ones SLOWLY.... this is a long on going process that you can do but if you think your man would be ok working with you I'm sure he can help.
if he loves you and he's an adult I am sure he will help you overcome this.
have you told him what the doctor said?
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