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I'm having trouble getting lubricated for sex and it's making me self-conscious

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Question - (24 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am becoming really self concious as i am seeing this bloke at the moment, however are not getting to close as i am moving away and are scared we will both get hurt if we get in to deep. however he thinks im shy to try new things which i am because i cant get wet, its really affecting my confidence because before i didnt have this problem and it means i cant have spontanious sex. it only occured after applying the implanon last year. is there any thing i can do to help this. its making me very self concious and i feel stupid. will he think i am not turned on by him because thats not the case. please help its really annoying me. thanx

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI agree with Brandi. Play around and see if something gets you more lubricated. Or try using some KY Jelly to make things a little bit more lubricated.

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A female reader, Brandi United States +, writes (24 June 2007):

Brandi agony auntWell i am not a sex genius but if it is hard to get lubricated then try to masterbate and try things BUT BY YOURSELF so you feel more comfy. and if that does not work then i would try to go to the doctor because that is not normal. let me know if that works lol good luck

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