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writes:I've been dating my bf for 2 years now. I've grown bored of him. I had an emotional affair for 4 months, but ended it when I decided I wanted to stay loyal to my bf. I've tried to rekindle the romance, I've tried special dates, new activities, hobbies and we are planning a holiday together. We are compatible, get along well, but I can't get back our chemistry. I don't miss him like I used to. I have no desire to spend time with him anymore. Instead all these things we do together, I wish it was with that someone else. I still care for him. I want this to work. Should I keep trying? Or is it time to give up?
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reader, Starmonster888  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Yeah, you should move on. This is one of those scenerios in which the bad guy isn't necessarily one of the individuals involved in the relationship's fault, but just a depletion of interest overtime. This is, however, proof that whatever you saw in him or based your relationship on has a 2 year validity, so if you want longer relationships in future, you need to find someone with something that's more substantial and meaningful, otherwise, we'll have the same problem again.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2010):
Let's face it. This guy isn't the one. You had an emotional affair, and even when you stopped that, the romance had gone. He's not the one, and you should let him go so he can find someone else who will love him, and you can find someone else who does it for you.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (18 July 2010):
 Let him go, he deserves a girl who treats him right, doesn't cheat and makes him happy...
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