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babygirl08
writes:I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. In august i will be going to college and my boyfriend is in his last year of High School. I am scared of going to school away from him. I am partly scared if one of us will find someone else. I know it is a difficult time for us and i am very nervous. I am not a very social person and I dont make friends easily and i will be in school knowing no one. We have lived together for the summer and I love being with him. I will be going to school about 45 minutes away so i will get to see him. but i am still nervous. Please help if you have been there or have any advic.e Reply to this Question |
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reader, bemused  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Hi hun
You are so not alone with these issues. At this time of year so many people in long term relationships know that there could be a parting of the ways coming due to going away to college or university.
I am sure you have heard the saying...if it was meant to be. It sounds tried and true but it is true. You are not going to be that far away from your boyfriend...are you firmly committed as a couple or are you not sure? Has it occurred to you that the separation might make him miss you all the more? You are still young and did it occur to you that you might meet someone and he might be hurt? You are not that far away from each other and will no doubt see each other on the weekend.
Remember too that you are going to college to prepare for a career and grow as a person. This could be a fabulous and amazing time in your life...it your boyfriend was meant to stay the course with you...he will.
Good luck love
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Call eachother and chat a lot, but in highschool you will have a lot of homework, so it's best you finish everything first, then see/call him.It really depends, if you have alot of free time you can arrange with him to go to a movie, or date etc. in a place around the middle of the college. If it takes more than 3 hours to get there it's not worth it.Remember, studies BEFORE b/f's
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