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writes:Referring back to a previous question, but that horendous posessive civil partnership has not ended, he keeps threatening me, today I recieved a message along the lines of "i know why you broke up with me, you ****** cheater, im gonna tell everybody about you etc etc" which is totally not true, the only reason i left him was because he thought that me getting an education was "Selfish" whats the best way to get rid of this sort of emotional response/blackmail? and will this ever end? cos Im kinda scared now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): The same thing happened with me & my ex except I am a straight female. My ex kept harassing me, threatening me, saying really crazy accusations to try & get a reaction out of me. Eventually I learned that the only way to make it go away was to ignore him 100%. It took a few months of ignoring him completely, and he was emailing and calling family members of mine & they ignored him as well. All the while I was pregnant so I was especially scared (not his baby). I also led him to believe that I changed my number. When he called, I had someone else answer & they told him that he had the wrong number. You may have to change your number. In the long run, he is going to look unstable if he does start spreading rumors about you. But the best advice I can give is to ignore him completely, no matter how badly you want to reply & tell him he is full of s*it. He knows he is anyways.
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reader, AskEve + ♥, writes (9 April 2008):
 I haven't read your previous question but in my opinion, the best way to deal with this is to rise above it and do nothing. I would completely ignore his texts and if they continue, then change your sim card (mobile number). Texting him back is only feeding him more. Ignore him completely and he'll soon get the message. YOU know the truth and that's all that matters and anyone who knows you will KNOW he's spreading rumours.
~Eve~
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