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writes:My bf and I have recently been engaging in anal play during sex, and he really loves it. He recently confided in me that he has fantasies of being penetrated by a transgender person and he further confided that he would like to experience giving oral sex to a man. I am freaking out here. Is he gay, bissexual or bicurious? I've never suspected him before. When we go out he admires women...Now I'm not so sure.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (17 August 2015):
 I would say bi-curious as well.
I think it's more common for men who are bi/bi-curious to want a transgender do things to them versus a guy - because they are worried that these fantasies make them gay.
They don't.
One thing though is having fantasies. Another thing is WILL he go out and try to explore that part of his sexuality?
Being bi-sexual or bi-curious doesn't mean they HAVE to have both mane and women and can't be faithful. It just means that both men and women CAN turn them on sexually.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (17 August 2015):
Well, if he's never had those experiences but is curious about them then he certainly qualifies as bicurious. If he also likes women then he certainly isn't gay. I give him props for his honesty as there are MANY bisexual/bicurious men who are terrified to admit it, for fear of being judged.
Look, as long as he is honest, faithful and loyal then this is nothing to freak out about. This isn't about his sexuality but whether he'd cheat. My own husband has bisexual tendencies, but would never, ever cheat on me. He had experiences when he was younger and desires to keep it strictly as fantasy now. Your guy may be the same. You should talk more, without judging.
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