A
male
age
18-21,
sionmaisley
writes:I'm feeling really bad about my choice in men lately, my first real boyfriend used to hit me and i just found out that my second conned all my friends out of a load of cash and left the country. I now keep being stood up by this one lad who i really like, I want revenge any advice?
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (10 July 2008):
 Hi
You're actually more angry with yourself i expect.
Learn from it and make better choices from now on..
C xxxxx
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female
reader, bitterblue  + ♥, writes (10 July 2008):
 Revenge will not help you. It is said the unfortunate are those who commit injustice rather than those who suffer it. It is ADVISABLE that you tend to this thinking so you find your peace. You do not say who you want to punish. You will only become what you dislike by treating the new people that you meet in the same unjust manner that you have been treated. As for those who did you intentional harm, they will most likely repeat this pattern until something or someone will stop them without this implying your retaliation. The pitcher goes so often to the well that it gets broken. Dwell on the past for grim reasons and it will prejudice you more than the past itself, as you will become a bitter person and that is most certainly not a good premise for a content life, free of concerns! Don't forget you cannot "find" a good relationship, you will have to build one, engaging your good faith, patience and experience. You must also choose between revenge and compassion, for those who did you wrong and for those that are in a similar or much worse situation than you and find the positiveness within yourself to circumvent this impasse.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 Don't do the others what you don't want others to do to you. Revenge is never the answer.
My opinion
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