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writes:im 19, male and a student, im going through such a difficult phase in my life. i've got my exams coming up now but thats nothing, the thing that im stressed about is the relationship ive been in for 3 years. 2 years of it havn't been easy. ive tried to withstand it and stay strong but now 2 years later despite it being the best its ever been, my mental health isnt keeping up. I stay upset all of the time and the minor happinesses that i get dont hang around for long. i try to pull myself out of it all of the time trying to get past it but everytime i gather the strength to do so i just get pushed back down again. i cant handle it no more its making me so weak mentally. due to my exams being around the corner my full concentration should be on them but i simply feel brain dead and incapable of doing anything. everybody around me wants me to do well and of course so do i but due to my problems i feel that i find it difficult to gather motivation and the strength to prepare and pull it off. i feel that i dont want to flood my gf with my problems as she is going through her own and our relationship is just beginning to stand back up again, after 2 years of hell. im sure that she's the one and her happiness means a great deal to me therefore i dont want to overwhelm her with my problems. i try to carry out all of my other duties and responsibilities but its hard to keep up with the demands without letting anybody realise what im going through. this is simply my last cry of help as i dont feel i can carry on i just want to go away some where for a very long time, but as thats not possible i need to stand up on my own two feet without letting anything stop that. i just want to know if anybody has any suggestions on motivation and are there any methods of getting past this crisis that im going through. i really would appreciate any help that is available. and please dont say just hit the clubs and anything like that please because i try to stick as close to religion as possible therefore i wouldnt want any advice which goes against that. please respect that.thankyou
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reader, raiders  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 You say you want to stay close to your religion have you tried to talk to your pastor or priest. Many time churches has activity and groups that you can attend to this will help ease your mind of all your problems.
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