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I'm doing all the work during sex! How can I make her feel more comfortable about doing more?

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Question - (28 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *hinngy writes:

me and my girlfriend have a great sex life but she expects me to do everything she even said she was nervous and i under stand that how can i get her to get in to doing something i want done to me, gently?

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A female reader, Unique1 United States +, writes (28 June 2007):

Alright... Can you tell us more about your relationship such as how long have you guys been together? Is she shy by nature, is she comfortable with you from what you know?

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A female reader, aiizskiieboo Philippines +, writes (28 June 2007):

aiizskiieboo agony auntAs you know, most girls are SHY if they have sex. Thats what i've heard. But, my advice is.. tell her if its okay to let her do the moves. if she disagrees with you then just respect what she wants. Maybe she's not ready for making her own moves.

Good luck. =)

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2007):

cd206 agony auntWhy not just ask her outright? If she's nervous about doing it then give her lots of encouragement. Tell her how good it makes you feel when she does a certain thing. I'm sure she'll get used to it quickly.

CD

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