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30-35,
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writes:So right now i have this horrible feeling i am pushing my boyfriend away! I dont know whats going on right now i am constantly down and teary, takes the sillyest little thing to set me off. I feel completely useless and dont know how to fix it! The worst thing is i can see ig it getting to my boyfriend, we have only been together three months but i really do love him and i think he loves but i feel like this is not what he signed up for i wasnt this girl when we got together and i hate that i am now! I am so scared i am going to loose him but feel like if i keep going the way i am thats ecmxactly whats going to happen! I have spoke to him about it and he always reasures me that im all he wants, but i find it so difficult to believe and thwt makes me feel so guilty!! I dont really know what im asking i suppose im just looking for advice as to what i can do cause i cant go on like this i and sick of being down all the time and i just want to be happy again
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 March 2016):
 Make an appointment with your doctor and tell them how you are feeling, they will give you the best advice on how to move away from these feelings, and will advice you on what path to take.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2016): Sounds like you may have clinical depression. Don't think that that makes you abnormal though. It is incredible common. My story sounds exactly the same as yours. I thought I'd lose my boyfriend too because I felt like I was No fun to be around. However, all changed when I felt ready to take myself to the doctors. I'm pleased to say that after a period of anti depressants and counselling (both sound scary but are really really not!) I feel much more human and our relationship is flourishing and I'm now engaged! I was on the tablets for one year and have been happy without them now.If the thought of tablets or counselling scare you, that's okay too. You can just talk to your doctor. They are not going to force you to do anything but sometimes talking to someone neutral is really good. Do not give up on yourself. You are not abnormal. And there is a light at the end of the tunnel. But perhaps bring the tunnel end closer by making the initial appointment with your doctor. It's the first step in the road to feeling human again.it is scary to talk about your feelings, but I can promise that you'll feel better just for going!Please let me know how you're doing. I feel for you because I know what you're going through. I just hope you can make the appointment. Much love
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