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writes: I met this girl at work and I think she's awesome. We shoot emails back and forth sometimes like 80 a day, we take breaks together and have had a few random "date" nights. I definitly know there is some kind of connection, becuase shes been emailing my little sister getting some "dirt on me". Why bother if shes not interested right? We are soon to part for college and we are both attending different universities. The campuses are only about 4.5 hours away so the distance is not really an issue, but a factor to conisder. If I don't ask her out I will regret it for the rest of my life. Heres my problem I 've never had a girl friend so I'm clueless on how to ask her out. The writing a note saying check "yes" or "no" isnt going to work. Could I please get some advice on how an adult would approach this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): I think asking someone out over e-mail or confessing your feelings in one isn't a great idea, cause some girls take it as a sign of weakness. How bout you ask her on another one of those random dates, ask her what she likes to do and go do it with her? the important thing is that you have to like it too!! Go to a club or something and dance with her, have a great time, just talk for about an hour about random stuff that comes up. Take her home and before she goes in, look into her eyes and say, "ya know, I'm starting to really like you..." this is a good line because she can take it two ways, without blatantly rejecting you. How you know is if she says "I like you too..." well, thats great, but if she says "what you mean?" then you have to decide either to spill the truth or do some recovery. but I bet thats really unlikely if what you said about her is true. she likes being with you, she's asking other people about you, so you shouldn't have any problems, unless you havn't got enough nerve to make a move!!!
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