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18-21,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend have decided to start having full sex. I've been circumcised and hear this dulls sensation. I've practised with a condom and orgasm ok, but will it be the same during intercourse-i'll need plenty friction but want to be gentle the 1st time.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Well, youll be surprised how little friction you need, masterbation and sex feel differently, im circumcised and ive never had a problem. Even if you feel you cant ejaculate when being gentle, which i doubt you will, then just dont worry about it, theres more to sex than just ejaculating. i take it shes a virgin? IF i was to take somebodys virginity, i wouldnt be worrying about myself atall, id just make things as comfortable as possible for her, even if it means sacrafising my personal pleasure. Hope it all goes well.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Hard to imagine where you got that idea. In America, I've always heard the circumcised member generally offers increased sensation for both the male and his female partner, while the foreskin of the uncircumcised penis often gets in the way. Truth is probably that it little matters - it's all good !
My friend "Annalisa" offered some good pointers to get you started. Enjoy.
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reader, faith_believe_love  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Hi.Being circumcised doesnt mean will make sex less pleasurable i think it will be more pleasurable since theres no skin thats covering the head of your manhood.take care.
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (19 February 2008):
 Circumcision is practiced as a method of insuring hygiene with the least need to fumble with your sexual organ. Sexual pleasure comes from the stimulation of sensitive nerves, increased blood flow and all the emotions involved in making love. As all you are missing is a foreskin, intercourse will be just as pleasant as it is to uncircumcised men!
You do need to be gentle with your girlfriend, of course and friction will be inevitable, as she's likely to feel quite tight. But most of all, make sure you make her feel at ease, loved, desired, respected. Precede intercourse with lots of clitoral stimulation. You can feel the area and even penetrate her with one and then two fingers, to break the hymen and ease her into the experience of intercourse.
Once she is really wet, go for it. You should be able to build up speed to increase friction once she's used to you being inside her.
Hope I helped and good luck!
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