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writes: I broke up with this guy I was seeing for 3 months because I he's kind of a little too nerdy. but we did connect and I did have a lot of fun with him. well it's 3 months later and now I want to get in touch with him again, I think maybe because no one else has come along and I'm bored and lonely again. I can't see a future together but I want to be friends again, maybe with "benefits". is this ok? or should I try to be strong and resist calling him up again...
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 January 2006):
 Do not contact him. Nobody deserves to be someone's sloppy seconds. Nerds have feelings too and they deserves respect. And of course they also can make big bucks...look at Bill Gates. I'll bet Melinda doesn't regret hanging out with a nerd.
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reader, x Chrissy x +, writes (24 January 2006):
 If you are only trying to be friends with him then I would say that it is OK but i dont think that you should just call a guy because your bored. Try to resist the temptation, you cant just use a person because your bored and wait for someone better to come along. Good Luck.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (24 January 2006):
 Don't call this guy hurt him again, that wouldn't be in the slightest bit fair. 3 months isn't very long, I would suggest you go out and make a life for yourself which doesn't need a bf to hold it up!
Anyway, who says he would have you back, do you really want to be rejected by somebody you dumped 'cos you thought he was *nerdy*.
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2006): Three months is not very long to be alone. I would seriously think about why you broke up and carefully consider would that be any different now. If it wouldn't be and you got back together you may just end up hurting each other again. Remember the reasons you broke up and if things are now different consider it, if not, leave him. Soemone else will come along.
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