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writes:Hi, I dont really know why im posting this, i guess it'll just help!!. Im bisexual(f) and i think im falling for, well, no, i am falling for one of my best friends who is straight unfortuantly;) lol. Anyway i dont want her to know because, well that would just make things weird, how can i, you know, make sure it doesnt look like i do? I dont know, i dont want to start acting weird around her, but i cant stop thinking about her. its driving me mad!!I knew this would happen, unfortuantly it always does!!Help lol.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Yeah it does make things difficult if it goes wrong! But good luck anyhow :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe might...but if she isnt it would make things really difficult... i think ur right, have to concentrate on other things..if i can :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Yeah it does make sense! Well if you feel that way then just try and concentrate on other things... Which is definitely easier said than done I should know hehe!
But if she's cool about it, maybe she'd be ok about u liking her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeh she does know im bi, and shes cool about it! Shes driving me mad..i cant stop thinking about her, sighh!!. i dont know, i dont really wanna talk to anyone because that only makes it real..make sense?! lol xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): If you feel that you really don't want to tell her then you probably shouldn't if your instincts are telling you not to. You should trust them.
Just act the way you always do around her and things will seem completely normal. Does she know you're bi? If she doesn't she'll be less likely to notice. You should try and find another friend who you can talk to about it (and obviously some one who'll keep it secret!), because talking to someone really helps and makes you feel like you're not holding as much inside.
Let me know how it's going!
xx Hope xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI couldnt possibly tell her the truth, through risk of ruining our friendship. :(
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reader, flipsNsplits7  +, writes (30 July 2008):
 well tell her the truth i mean it worked for me so ya never know
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