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I'm bisexual - why does my interest for guys last so shortly?

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Question - (15 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

please help me! i am bi and have been attracted to many women, and a few men. recently i found out that the overall attraction i have for any guy would not last more a month. i don't know why this has been happening, but i know those guys who have pursued me were deeply hurt..they said i gave them hope and threw them away like garbage after that. i feel so bad. and there's this handsome guy who has been chasing me for more than 3 months..he asked me to his girlfriend a few days ago but i rejected him. i was surprised by my answer because i knew he's good guy and i always thought we'd be together. i like him a lot but that feeling has faded ..so quickly. he said he'll wait for me. what should i do? and why do my interest for guys last so shortly?

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A female reader, kurayami3nobara United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

It sounds like you're either a lesbian, or can't hold interest in a relationship. Have you ever been in a relationship with a girl? Perhaps you should try that out and see if you get bored like you tend to do with men. If not, then it's likely you just like girls. If you do get bored, then it sounds like a relationship-issue on your end. :3

Hope that helped!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (15 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntMaybe you aren't really bisexual.

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