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writes: I am a woman attracted to my female friend.We have kissed and when I asked her if it's OK she said no, but there was hesitation in her words as if she wanted to say yes.We still hang out,go to dinner, have drinks. We speak for hours and flirt. if we don't see each other at least one of us will make the phone call before bed time. I feel that I am in love with her. Should I tell her even if she rejects me or should I keep on suffering in silence? Is this chemistry - I feel one sided? I am not lusting for her, but I feel I'm not done kissing her. She is amazing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnaks to all! I have made the decision to ask her how she truly feels. I believe that she would want to remain friends and its me who needs to move on if rejection is her answer. Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Do...Not...Tell...Her!!! I have recently been in the exact same situation. I thought the chemistry was coming from both sides - but I was wrong. I think when you are "in-love" your imagination runs riot. I told her and I'm hurt now, so my advice is don't do it.
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reader, wildman  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 I would tell her how you feel. She will probably be receptive. I think the truth is the best way to approach it.
good luck
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