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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2014): That's funny. It reminds me of when my dad saw his first ex wife at my half brother's birthday party ( my half brother and I have the same dad and different mothers . His mother was my dad's first wife. My mother was his second wife, and he is now married a third time lol ). It was a special birthday and they hadn't seen each other for years then. She recognised my dad straight away. She walked over to him, but he had no idea who she was until she told him !.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (10 June 2014):
 Why would you want someone that just walked out of your life and now returns and cant even remember you. Are you sure he cant remember you or he is playing amnesia. He may want a relationship and not want to explain why he walked out on you. Also is he worth taking the risk again? Think hard and remember how you felt when he walked out on you. Sometimes people don't change and remain the coward they are.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 I'd remain mum. If he is that much of an idiot it wil come out in even more ways. Then you can pull back the curtain if you wish but it sounds like he is pretty numb so maybe he won't even believey when/if you do reveal youself.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 Keep quiet if you're just using him for a fun fling. Tell him the truth if you're serious about him.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 June 2014):
 Hi, yes just tell him, make him wait a little while into the date, see if his memory jogs. We all can change over time. He's obviously drawn to you in a subconscious way. You could also make him suffer for abandoning you the last time. you could actually have a bit of fun with this one, depending on your own feelings. Good luck!.
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reader, malvern + ♥, writes (9 June 2014):
 Go out on a second date and tell him. Fourteen years is a long time and I'm sure both of you have changed quite a bit since then. A very similar thing happened to me actually. I'd been dancing with a man a few times (ballroom dancing) when I asked him his surname. As soon as he told me I suddenly realised we'd been out together when we were young. Neither of us recognised the other. We had a good laugh about it and went on to date each other for about two years after that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2014): he just disappeared without saying anything he moved away and didn't speak to me no reason to why he left I haven't lied to him with anything ive said to him
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (9 June 2014):
 Tell him. IF you want to DATE this guy, how about you start out with honesty? Was it a bad break up?
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