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writes:I'm sorry if I sound a little bit confusing, my English is not very representative, but I think you'll get the point.I'm an actress who is in madly in love with an actor I'm working with on a play. I don't know how to approach him. We have great fun together, we have chemistry on stage, I feel like I've known him for so long, and I've only known him for 3 weeks. The thing is - we never spend time alone and I'm too scared to ask him to, for example, go out on a date with me. I just can't do that. I don't have the courage. By the way, I'm starting to be very jealous of my friend who plays the part of his lover. I feel like crying whenever I see them kissing or touching on stage. That girl got a bigger role and I can't stop feeling like that will make him admire her more than he admires me.Do you think I should try to flirt with him a little bit more? I'm really starting to fall for him and I'm very confused. And, yes, thanks for your help! :)
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 If your acting role calls for you to be in love or jealous then use the experience to be a better actress. If you just have feelings for the guy and are jealous about him acting as a lover, then you need to either control your feelings, or quit the role. You are working, he is working, everyone is working, there is no time for romance or drama, you have a play to get out. When the play is over, ask him out for a celebration drink, if he likes you then hopefully he will say yes.
You do know that show business brings out lots of emotions, and a lot of the emotions can be imaginary or overblown. But at the end of the day, if you can't cope then you should stay away. If you ask him out and he says no, can you continue working next to him and stay in the play? That's why I'm advising you to wait.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 March 2012):
 I think you should try to let him see you're interested. You could win a man you have chemistry with.
I just would ask you to "be careful with your heart", as a song goes in my language. Sometimes it is easy to fall in love when you're in particular circumstances, but the other party may not feel the same way. Because the situation is so intense, reality can be a bit tough, to say the least. Be careful, but be bold and try.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2012): I'm an actor as well! And guys seem like if you don't show them you like then then they won't ask you on a date and if all else fails just ask him on a date! The worst he can say is no
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