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writes:Im in a relationship with a girl for the past three years and we share everything but there's one last secret i didnt tell her and the secret is dat i am too hairy all over the hands and legs available in every place possible even a lot in the Ass and crotch area and all this time i have been hiding it from her by using hair removers and shaving it where the need be but the problem is i cant keep on doing it forever because im planning to spend my life with her and i think she will reject me when she knows this , im afraid because most people in our region have so less hairs in the said places or no hairs at all . I am confused ,should i tell her and get over with my fear for good or for worse or should i continue to keep on doing what i had been doing. Please Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, jenn_jenn  +, writes (5 May 2013):
Simple - you're a man. Men are built to be hairy. My ex was and I loved it. I dated a man previous to him who had practically no hair at all. It was just weird dude... I always felt like I was the man.
I wouldn't worry about it. Just tell her you have slightly more hair than the average male however you take care of yourself. And anyway its nice to know men feel our pain :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2013): I think am too obssesed with this hair thing and everytime i think of it and how i keep it hidden from her it makes me so guilty but again i dont want to lose her if i tell her and what if she rejects me anyways thank you guys for your assuring replies and il be as normal as i can be if am given more assurance. Thank You guys for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2013): You have to tell her. If she loves you, it shouldn't get in the way. Most women wax/shave/depilate. It's not as if we're lying, just keeping groomed. Men would be idiots if they actually thought we didn't have hair growing in these places. They know it grows, they know we remove it, they know it grows back. Your girlfriend will also know, depending on how well you've kept it hidden. So, next time you're doing your hair removal, you could try asking her what she thinks about body hair?? She might actually like it. Personally, I LOVE it. Very masculine, mature and sexy. There's a lovely animal smell that comes with body hair. Yum! If my guy said he'd been removing his hair for 3 years, and asked me what I thought, I'd say let it grow, let's see this boy turn into a man. Smooth bodies are great also, so carry on removing if you prefer that, but find a way to stop hiding what you're doing from your girlfriend and don't be to scared of her reaction, it's probably not as big a deal as you imagine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2013): Most women find male body hair attractive. For some of them it's even a must. You have no reason to worry unless you are too freakishly hairy.
You should have told her 3 years ago. She would either like it or not. Either way you would know if she's the one or not.
But now that you have made her believe you are not hairy, then you have to continue shaving/trimming (IMHO). That's fair.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (4 May 2013):
 Your planning on spending the rest of your life with her, so the best thing to do is tell her. You don't know how she will react but if she loves you Im sure this will not matter.
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