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writes:So I'm a virgin and have begun to masturbate. Since yesterday i have only used my hands and a bullet for clitoral stimulation which is fine, but then I brought a larger bullet (one to penetrate) so I could gain experience before i have sex for the first time. The thing is, it just won't fit in me! It's quite large, smaller than a normal penis though, so that means a normal penis won't fit, right? The smaller bullet fits inside me fine, but the larger one doesn't at all and it hurts a lot if i try and force it in. Whats my problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): Its because you are a virgin. There is nothing wrong with you. Your vagina is still rather small and has not been stretched out yet. Its probably just used to tampons. It will hurt the first time you fit it in and maybe a little after but that will go away. Lube should help alleviate some of the discomfort, maybe not all, but it will improve it significantly.
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reader, viccra78  +, writes (16 February 2011):
No it doesn't mean that a penis won't fit inside of you. The vagina is an amazing thing, it stretches...a lot, the size of a baby :) You are new at this and when some girls start using tampons it hurts. Trust me, you will be fine. Try using some lube in the mean time to help out too.
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reader, SquidVonLipwig +, writes (16 February 2011):
 AFAIK, as you're a virgin then you do not have a problem. If you've not done anything like this before, it is likely to hurt the fist time. Don't panic, there's nothing wrong with you.
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