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I'm a virgin and worried she has too high expectations of me, sexually! Any ideas?

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Question - (17 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well i think ive found the rite girl that i want to lose my virginity to...the only problem is she thinks im going 2 b real great durin our 1st time.

Can u help me out? Ur advice could help me out alot

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A female reader, thunderchild United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2008):

thunderchild agony auntlisten i agree with the top post why "plan" to loose your virginity, especially as you are so young!

but seriously do you see your self with this girl in the very far future? Talkin from experience i wish i waited till i met my partner its something special two people share, and you only get to do it once!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

Omg, finish high school!

Why would she expect that from you? Has she already had sex? 0_0? Do you really want to have sex with someone who is already, at such a young age, no longer even a virgin?

I know you want to go ahead and do this, but I don't think it's such a smart idea. I mean, say she has had sex with other guys, what if she has some sort of STD? Do you really want to worry and deal with something like that?

Think about it before you do it, lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008):

why do you have to have sex so young? Can't you wait? This really isn't such a smart move.

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A female reader, penguin64 United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2008):

penguin64 agony auntjust tell her how you feel. if she really is the right person then she will understand. the first timne is never really great. its awkward.

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