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I'm a guy and REALLY like this other guy but how do I know he's not straight?

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Question - (13 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2007)
A male New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The school year just started up a few weeks ago, and it started way better than any other beginning of the year. For some odd reason I seem to be quite approachable to the new students and i've already made heaps of friends. But heres where my problem comes in,

Theirs this new guy, call him 'Z'. Hes very attractive, cute and generally pretty cool. And due to my new found confidence this year I actually talked to him and although at first I tried just to be friends with him im worried that im falling in love with him. The problem is that im not sure what his sexuality is.

I dont really mind what his sexuality is, obviously I do hope that he is gay or bi but if he is straight then I would still do just about anything to be his mate.

How do I go about finding out what his sexuality is? I've made up a few stories just talking about my ex girlfriends (which honestly were just friends) and tried to get him to mention something about a girlfriend of his (if hes had a girlfriend then chances are hes straight and im cool with that).

Anyone have any ideas?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007):

I've had a similar problem, the first thing i done was joked with him about it. 2 weeks later he called me and ask if i would really "do anything like that with him"

when i answered yes i found out he was bi but shy aout it

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (13 February 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntPercentage wise, it's probable that he's straight. If you already are talking with him, ask him general questions like "Have you seen the latest James Bond film, Casino Royale?" If he has, ask him "Who do you think was the hottest person in the film?" If he says "Daniel Craig", you're in like Flynn. If he says "Eva Green", you're barking up the wrong tree. If he says "Judi Dench", then he's bi. LOL.

Good luck!

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