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I'm a girl... But I think I should be a boy... But I have a boyfriend... Confused, please help!

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Question - (12 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2006)
A female , *deadrainbowpixie* writes:

I'd like to start by saying, I'm a *very* confused teenager. I've felt like I should be a boy for a while now, but my long term boyfriend tries to make me feel comfortable as a girl (Although, he HAS accepted that I want to become a boy, and has said after we've lived together as male and female, and maybe had children, he'd stand by me if i wanted to go through with a sex change, and I have agreed to this)... But I'm starting to become curious as to what it feels like to be flat chested, like a boy! (as I hate my breasts!) And I wanted to try n bound my breasts flat - I was just wondering if anyone could help me (tell me a good way of doing this, which is comfortable)? Preferably something easy to get hold of, as I am embarrassed to talk to my mum about this! Thanks loads and sorry the 'question' is so long! xoxox

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A female reader, *deadrainbowpixie* +, writes (13 January 2006):

*deadrainbowpixie* is verified as being by the original poster of the question

*deadrainbowpixie* agony auntOh sorry. I am bisexual/pansexual. Which means I am attracted to males, females and transvestites. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I wouldnt leave him for anything. We have been together for 19 months, so no, I'm not using him as a 'front'... Being a lesbian is impossible as I *am* attracted to men, although I do prefer feminine men... Thank you for your advise, I'll try and find someone to talk to :) but you didn't mention anything to do with helping me find a way to bound my breasts back :s Thanks anyway. xoxo If anyone knows of a good way to bound them, please give me some tips/info. Thx!

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A female reader, hope +, writes (13 January 2006):

You didn't state if you were really attracted to men or if you have a boyfriend as kind of a front. For one children should be the farthest thing on your mind right now, and by the sound of it, your boyfriend as well. Before you figure out what to do with the outside of your body you need to figure out what's going on on the inside. Is it possible that you may be a lesbian? This may seem like a hard pill to swallow right now but we often express how we feel on the inside by our appearance on the outside. Before you do anything else you need to be honest with yourself and start from there. It doesn't sound like you and your mom have a relationship where you would feel comfortable talking to her about this but you do need some guidance, I would suggest a close relative, school counselor or someone other than your boyfriend that you can trust. I know you must be very scared and confused right now but trust me honey, be honest with yourself and follow your heart and you won't go wrong. Good luck

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