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I'm 48 and I have trouble achieving orgasm! Any suggestions or advice?.

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Question - (31 December 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2006)
A male age , *pinner1 writes:

I am a 48 year old male in good health. For the last several years I have had trouble achieving orgasm. It just gets harder and harder to climax and sometimes I just give up. The only way I can orgasm is by tensing up my body and stiffening my legs when there close together when I feel like I am getting close to orgasm. If I don't do this I cannot orgasm.

Also it seems like the only way for me to do this is by having me on the bottom and my partner on top doing most of the work so I can concentrate and tense my body and muscles to I can orgasm.

I don't know what to do. All the sexual problem sites all talk about ED and premature ejaculation, but I have the oppsite problem which I cannot find any information on.

Please help me!!

B

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A female reader, Juliette United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2006):

Juliette agony auntPerhaps you are trying too hard. It may help if you abstain for a week then your body may respond more urgently. If you are using porn to orgasm this is also showing to have the effect you are talking about. You can end up in a vicious circle where normal sex is no longer adequate.

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