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writes:I'm 19 years old.When I was 14 (he was 16) I had a crush on this guy and he really liked me too.But we were both extremely popular and rumors started pouring out til we eventually didn't talk to each other (because of pride)until 11 months ago.Meanwhile,after we stopped talking he got back with his ex-girlfriend and they eventually had a child together (she's now 2).It just so happens the day my ex broke up with me I went to the club and he approached me.We were so excited to see each other I started going to his house every Thursday after the club.Yes he had his own apartment not with his baby's mother.We didn't have sex til about the 5th Thursday so it wasn't just sex.But because he had a child it's like we never dated.Plus I was in between a serious relationship so I never pushed the subject.In the meantime I recently moved(almost 4 months now)to a city about 5 hrs away and he is well aware.But he recently had another child, a son(and he's a Jr.)And about 11 days after the birth of his son, when I was in town visiting at the club he gave me his new number.He even joked how come I moved my best friend to the city with me but not him.It's apparent he doesn't want to be with his baby's mother, you would think he would marry her if he did.And they aren't even dating right now!!So what should I do??I want to be with him.I'm okay with being a step-mother.I just wonder could we ever be??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): okay so let's say he stops making babies with this girl... rite now i dont mind that he's having sex with her because that's not my boyfriend and he's had sex with her before obviously...if we were together that would be a different story i just don't know to go about making this happen or should i even try to make this happen...i know we could work out..if not oh well and if so i can deal with the fact that he has a baby momma and 2 kids...i know he wont be with her for the rest of his life because they're not even dating right now and he keeps flirting with me...but i did leave this part out he just recently moved in with her...i doubt it was his idea though because he already had his own apartment without her...she probably just needed some assistance
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reader, sexi  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Hi
Firstly i think that if he really didnt want to be with this girl then he should stop making babies with her?!? Once he can stop that then you can make a decision. Also he keeps have babies with her but he doenst want to be with - Does he like the sex? He is giving you tips about being with you but he turns to her when you not around. I think that you should have a seriuos chat with this guy and see what he would like to come out of this relationship then you can decide. Also you need to know that his ex (the mother of his children) would always be a part of his life and if you can deal with that then maybe there is something that you can persue with him.
Regards,mail me if you wanna chat
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