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I'm 15, a virgin and I need to know--how do you give someone head and toss him off?

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Question - (6 February 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey im 15 yeah and my boyfriend is 17 i hav been with my lad for 3 months or so and we both decided to have sex,and i am definatley ready i'm a virgin, but my bf isnt i have a cuple of qwestions, firstly,

the problem is i havent properley started my period yet lol and i am not sure if you can have sex b4 you have..and if i do shag him will he be able to tell that i havent started??

also how exacly you do you give someone head and toss them off? lol

pleaase help me!! x

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A female reader, 15girl  United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2010):

15girl  agony auntSTOP right now,

1. your not ready

2. if you were you wouldnt be asking this

3. 9/10 of your friends who claim they have had sex havnt.

wait untill your really ready you wont need to know it willb just happen

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

you need to wait till your older and know what your getting into

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007):

omg believe me, i know how it feels. im 15 also and my boyfriend is 18, i still don't know if i should go all the way with him, and we've been together for 4 months. but the main thing i wonder about is if he'll change, you know? i mean yeah he'll seem like everything to you but are you everything to him? even though it sounds wrong and others will take it as rape, will it be considered rape if you want to do it? girl, i am just as puzzled and confused as you are.....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

I am 16 and i am a virgin, i know how it feels to want to have sex but i'm not sure if i'm ready to have sex, but my boyfriend is. like you, i'm not sure how to please him. If your bf has done it before he can teach you what to do. If he has never done it both of you can learn together by exploring each others body. If you decide to do it use protection and make sure that he is the right person to give it to,and make sure he respects you first.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007):

hello my name is crystal i am 16 and have had two sexual relationships.

i am writing to you to answer your question coz i feel i can explain it to you clearly.

to toss a boy off - firstly you need to get in to a comfy position with your boyfriend , this could be laying together watching tv on a bed or laying together on the sofa .In order to toss your boyfriend off you need to get him hard you could do this by kissing him intimately and start to put your hands under his trousers and massage him gently this will make him get an erection almost automatically. After he is hard ask him to gently pull down hi trousers and underwear revealing his penis so it is easier for you to move your hand. Then begin to move the fourskin which is the peice of skin that moves on your boyfriends penis up and down slowly to start off with then going faster when you feel you have got the hang of it .

For the length of time that you do this for is up to you and your boyfriend it is all depending on whether he wants to cum or not, this is a white ceamy coloured liquid called sperm that comes out of your boyfriends penis when he gets too the point where he feels very excited and likes what your doing the time that he does this may vary really some men will take quite a while and others may do it vey quickly. When your boyfriend feels that he is ready to come before doing so make sure that u ask him to tell you a bit before hand so you can get ready to do what ever to catch the sperm this could be one of the following:- having some tissue ready to put on top of your boyfriends penis with you holding the tissue there, resting his penis getly onto his stomach and letting him come on his stomach but ask your boyfriend if he likes it or not first, rolling over onto your back with him kneeling over you and letting him come over your stomach, or rest your mouth on top of the head of your boyfriends penis and take his come into your mouth and then choosing to spit it out or swallow it. i hope this helps! good luck hunni x x x x

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A female reader, mum2be United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2007):

Sweety, your way too young to be thinking of sex. I mean, i am your age and pregnant and i can telly you, you do not wnat to be in that position!!!!!!

I know you will propably ingonre this advice as it seems like you have made up your mind, but is your bf willing to break the law by having sex with you?

How would your parents react? If you are not mature enough to talk through this with both your partner and your parents, and get there support, i don't suggest you even go there!!!

If yo do, though, make sure you use protection that you are both comforatble with. Every man is different, so telling you how to please him wont help you, because he may be completely different. As a general rule, though, most men will feel more ocmfortable if they feel that you are comfy and really enjoy what you are doing, so have a good time, and he will too.

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2007):

firstly id recomend you re consider having sex at a young age, i know at your age a pack of wild horses wont stop you from thinking you know it all. but 15 is still too young not to mention illegal and after 3 months are you sure this guy is 'the one'?

but if you still decide to go ahead then just experiment with methods, im not exactly a pro being a hetro male lol. but each man likes his own thing, hard n fast with lots of sucktion or slow n sensual you'll learn as long as he knows what he likes.

but if your going to be silly and lose it young, at least be safe and use protection, use a condom and put yourself on the pill. that way your covered at all bases.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

What does toss them off mean? Yes you can have sex b4 your period, but it's going to hurt remember b/c you're a virgin. I would wait until you're 17 to have sex. You haven't even started your period yet, so your body isn't even mature enough for sex. Plus the guy is just going to loose interest after you let him have sex w/ you, and he will brag that he took your virginity. Don't trust males.

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A female reader, mel_22 United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2007):

mel_22 agony auntHmmmm, this is difficult firstly you aren't actually legally old enough for intercourse but then I know what it's like if you;ve made your mind up you wont change it. There is no way you're boyfriend can tell that you haven't started your period properly and you can have intercourse before you have. You do still need to be careful however if your bf is experienced use a condom you dont want your 1st time to end up with u having an STI!! When you do get down to it dont be pressured things like foreplay come with practise and if he knows your a virgin then he will understand that your will not be too sure get him to tell you how he likes it take your time and explore ech other if your going to do it you might as well have fun and explore this guy, just be sure your doing it for the right reasons dont be pressured it is ok to say no just take care and be careful.

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