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I'm 13 and torn between three guys...

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Question - (8 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, RealFunkyDudette writes:

Ok i am 13 and i am torn between 3 guys one is my ex one is my best mate and one is my boyfriend! My ex keeps tellin me he loves me still my best mate always flirts with me and hugs me and stuff and my boyfriend goes to an all boys school so we see each other on the weekends and we always kiss! But i like all 3 of them, i feel really bad because i know them all quite well and they are all awsome. please help!

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A female reader, Gemini1506 United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2007):

13! Gosh your getting more action then me! Slow down there is no need to rush you should be having fun girl. I dont think you should take this situation seriously, just have fun... if ya ex wants you back let him tell u dat and see how it goes. And when your with your bf kissing is fine but dnt rush into anything too soon. And your friend i think its best to stay friends for now and see how fingz progress, i think the worst thing is losing your best friend so be careful with his feelings.

By the way cheating isnt a habit you should get into i'm just saying dont get yoursel tied down too young just have fun!

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A female reader, jo158 United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2007):

your so young just have fun while your young try writing down the positivs and negatives of each obviously yuour ex is an ex you split with him for a reason your currant boyfriend hes your boyfriend you got with him for a reason and the best mate well hes also your best mate has he missed the chance??

write it down and see speak to some female mates who know them maybe they can help you out?

Take care

x

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A male reader, Friend Tom United States + , writes (8 September 2007):

(smile)I am sure they are all "awesome", hon. You will probably know other awesome people in the next few years. What exactly are you asking for? Do you want someone to tell you who to be "best friends", "sweathearts" with? Nobody can do that for you, young'en. And even if we could, you will change your own mind within a few months, anyway. (lol) Don't take these early "crushes" too seriously, sweets. You will have many of them. I would say this...try to hold on to real friends. I mean those who don't demand anything from you, but just enjoy being around you and like you for who you are. Luvs, Tom

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