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writes:If a girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks (absolutely no contact at all, no texts, no phone calls, no MSN, no emails) does that mean (he's a bit of a player) that he is leading a double life or has got something to hide? When he does say something, he tells her he left his phone at the office! Should I say something, or keep quiet? He is 25 and she is 19
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): Guys who are interested...show it through contact but they are careful not to be overbearing and smothering, either. But generally, most of them will contact a love interest, every 1-3 days. If it's been 2 weeks, this is a neon, blinking red flag. I think it's likely time for you to move on. With the advent of cell phones, computers, and phones, there is no reason he should not be calling you, sooner than this. Men are like us women..they love contacting someone they truly like. So no guy's day is so busy that they cannot make a quick 3 minute call to someone they genuinely like and want to get to know better. Two weeks is way too long. Remember'actions do speak louder than 'sorry, I was too busy to call'. Some men do lose interest fast in relationships. They allow the relationship to "fade" away because they believe they are unable to "love" and go beyond the early "passionate" stage. Once that is gone, they lose interest and can't sustain an emotional connection. It could mean he has other 'interests', elsewhere and if you're looking for faithfulness, then he may not be the guy. Don't ever be "scared" to lose a guy, dear. Don't let this get to you. Retain your self-esteem, independence and a healthy positive attitude about yourself and life in general, is very attractive to men. So Good luck and get back on with life and just slowly see where this will go.
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reader, shania +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Well it could be a number of things but my money is on him either having another girlfriend already or he's living with someone,or even married with kids. Another reason why he doesn't contact her for such a while is because he's not really that much into her,and therefore is playing around.If a guy was really keen on a girl then he would find a way of contacting her so there's no excuse.
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