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writes:If your boyfriend's sex drive is suddenly higher lately, does it mean he is cheating on you?We have always had amazing sex and he has had a healthy sex drive, like me, but just seems a little hornier the last week. Not sure why?We have been together 1.5 years.This past week he has been extra horny.Usually he is into pleasing me but the last time he just wanted to get off himself. Told me it was about him that day and hope that's ok. I got off too but he was not pleasing me like usual. I just get this feeling.Does anyone know? Even from experience if this signals a problem?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 May 2015):
 Sex drive changes is not a symptom of cheating. Why are you suspicious?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2015): Thanks everyone.
Well we just had straight sex. So he penetrated me and I came about four times and then he let go and he came.
Usually I come much more than that! Lol
But he still made sure I came multiple times because it excites him to see me come. Usually that is his whole focus and be all and end all, to please me. NOT HIM.
So yeah it is rare but I can't say he got all the pleasure. I did too. He just meant that he came quicker than usual and did not hang on for his orgasm so that I can have 10 of them!
Said he had a dream of him and I this morning and it really pumped him up.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (20 May 2015):
 Horner than usual would imply the opposite, that he isn't cheating. Has he been cheating he would not have a sex drive for you but would have a sex drive for the other one.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (20 May 2015):
At the very least your question would make more sense is he suddenly didn't want any.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2015): He's hornier than usual, so what? Why does that have to be a bad thing? If he was cheating, he'd want less sex, not more!
Why are you allowing suspicion to create a problem in your relationship? Suspicion arises from insecurity and a lack of trust. You've been together almost two years, and your great sex life just got better.
Is he cheating, is it porn, why doesn't he want me more, why why why...what if? There doesn't always have to be something wrong unless you make it something wrong!!!!!
New flash, sometimes the relationship and sex isn't all about you!
Sometimes a guy wants to be a little selfish. He feels more like a man. That's okay as long as it doesn't become a habit. If it shifts and pleasure becomes one-sided; turn the tides and make it all about you. He asked for your permission, he didn't just make it all about himself.
Don't hold back, take advantage of it. Usually after a good workout, my testosterone level peaks. I'm a tiger when that happens. Playfully remind him, it's not just about his pleasure; you want your share of that sexual-energy too!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 May 2015):
 I don't think it's an indication that he is cheating, but it is an indication that HE feel comfortable enough to suggest the sex be about HIM (only). Now personally.... it takes two to tango, it shouldn't JUST be about HIM. Sorry, his right hand can do that. Though if it's a once off, OK, but not if it starts to be a habit.
It's spring, clothes are getting tinier, more flesh is seen..
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