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female
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30-35,
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writes:Is it true that if your in a relationship thats been going on for say 5 months, and you havent argued or disagreed or havent just wanted to be alone for a day. Is it true that one of you isn't being honest? I've read that if you havent done those things and fought by 5 months or so that someone is either rebounding and trying really hard to make the new relationship work and is ignoring the other persons short-comings therefore theres nothing to argue about or there trying really hard not to argue. Or that one or both of them isnt being total honest with there feelings? Thanks for your opinions on this! Or if anyone knows that this is fact, thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 February 2010):
Nah, I've been with my husband for 5 years now and we hardly ever argue.
Yes, you need alone days and days with your mates rather than eachother, you need those a lot or you'll lose the romance.
But if you are capable of talking like adults and saying "you upset me a bit when you said this earlier..." "Oh really, I didn't mean to upset you, sorry. What I meant was this....." "Oh I see, well I'm sorry too, I understand now." Without ending up screaming and smashing things then that just means you've picked a good guy and he's pretty lucky to have you too!
Good Luck!! xx
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