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*.T.1988
writes:I'm a 22 year old virgin. People keep telling me there's nothing wrong with that, so why is it that I feel like a absolute worthless piece of crap shell of a man right now? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): I'm 20 only, and I'm still a virgin. HAPPY to be a virgin because I'm not going with the crowd (losing virginity everywhere). People who are against the idea of virginity are going to manipulate you psychologically. They're going to influence you to think that being a virgin is stupid. They're going to make you feel worse than worthless crap. They're going to trick you into saying that having sex in a relationship is a lot healthier than being single and a virgin. Yes, sex is healthy, but I'm religious so sex makes marriage healthy.
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reader, J.T.1988 +, writes (3 July 2010):
J.T.1988 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I haven't even had a real girlfriend yet though! Do you know how lonely that is? And yes I know that there is older virgins out there than me but how is that suppose to make me feel better? that just means it can get worse. I can remember saying to myself at one time "man I don't want to be a virgin at 20", but here I am 22 and not a damn thing has changed. To tell you the truth I really don't care that much about sex( although that would be nice) I really just want someone to hug and love and hang out with and do things with.I don't think that's so much to ask for is it :(?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): So your a 22 year old virgin men, and think that your a piece of crap. Just because your still vergin doesn't mean your worthless. What i think of you is that you feel insure about yourself. You have wrong preception, and i hope you don't even think it that way. You have tons of other business to do, not to worry about your verginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2010): Maybe you think you should be having sex because the media promotes this image of people having a lot of sex and the idea that its the way people should be.
You may be surprised to know that there are a lot of people out there who are virgins, and some of them older than you. Find a website and find other virgins and have a chat. You don't need to give a name of course.
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