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If she really wants to be with me then why does she have to hide things?

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Question - (28 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *acBreez writes:

My girlfriend and I were broken up over the weekend so we went 2 IHOP to talk about it. Everything was good but she kept txtn on her phone, I asked to see it and she said it was her ex-boyfriend. She said I could read the messages but she had to delete some "personal" parts of the message. I want to know should I respect her privacy with her Ex or should I tell her to kick rocks? I feel that if she really wanted to be with me then we shouldn't have anything to hide from one another.

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (30 November 2010):

Mjfbla agony auntMove on youd be better off. Why can she break up with you because of who you hang with and how often but she expects you to b fine with her txting her ex and hiding messages?

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A male reader, MacBreez United States +, writes (29 November 2010):

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Well we broke up over the weekend because I hang out with my friends atleast once a week and she doesn't like that so she broke up with me. We met at IHOP to talk about things and that's when I noticed she was txtn her ex.

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (29 November 2010):

Mjfbla agony auntHonestly, the deleting stuff is really weird. If everything is in the past then she should have no problem with you seeing it. And why would she be txting personal things to her x that she cant share with her bf??? Something doesnt add up. If it were me Id be worried that those messages she deleted were more then just something personal. Do you trust her enough to stay in the relationship while she txts secret messages to her x? How would she react if you did that to her? It's added mistrust to your aready rocky relationship(break) And why was there a weekend break?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010):

hi, well you should look at the parts she IS showing you, then if you get together she will maybe tell you the rest. personal things are natral and life would be TOO boring without them!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

She shouldn't be texting her ex full stop. She was in a relationship with you. Past, is there for a reason, and that reason is to stay there.

Move on!

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