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If she has all these secret accounts, why does she keep running after me?

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Question - (9 August 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i have been having an emotional affair with woman for the past three years and each time we decide to break up we find our selves coming back together again

recently i found the she has weired hidden accounts in Facebook (arround 6 accounts or more)and she even more than 12 secret e-mails and what realy cought my attention is when i ever decide to breakup she runs after me like crazy. she even degrades her self just be with me again and what is driving me crazy is if she has all these acounts then she must have loads of free men who arent married or attatched

than why she keep running after me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011):

Op we are not being judgmental. We are realistic. Have u tried being accountable for your actions? It is a hard journey But it will help u to view your affair realistically and will help u to make a committed decision.

LoveGirl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for the replays

But i don't any judgements or blames i need some analasys by thoe who are experienced

Thanks every one again

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

"infact i told my wife about her

just for the sake of pushing her off

i dont want to cheat on my wife"

Newsflash, you are already cheating on your wife. by entertaining your emotional affair partner, you have already crossed boundaries..........

LoveGirl

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

She doesnt want to be alone. Do you really want to be with someone like her? Run for the hills.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011):

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anony and blonde30s

i pushed her off many times

but she just kept running after me

thought i have been extremely rude with her

and i mean extremely !

infact i told my wife about her

just for the sake of pushing her off

i dont want to cheat on my wife

but i realy wanted to understand whats is going on arrouned me

thanks for your answers and still waiting for more

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