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If people only find love when their NOT LOOKING how does anyone ever find love?

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Question - (4 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2008)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear cupids.

I just have to say I love this site its awesome. Just a love question (sigh is there any other kind. My question is that "if people only find love when their NOT LOOKING how does anyone ever find love????? surly one of the two people have to be looking for a date to occur in the first place?". ?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (5 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou don't look for love, for love is inside of you. That is why you will never find love. When you find that some one , your love will grow from inside you.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (5 February 2008):

Collaroy agony auntI had just split up from my long term girlfriend of 8 years( literally that day) and was meeting up with a mate for a drink.

I was waiting for him in the pub and looking forward to the single life for a change.

But then this girl walks in the crowded room gives me the biggest most sincere smile I have ever seen -and 10 years later we are still married and very much in love.

It just happens, you dont know when or where , it just does.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2008):

dapone 1 agony auntI think it is because the harder you look for love the more desperate people seem, if some one goes out just for a good time and to enjoy them selfs and them meet some one, they are more relaxed, and do not seem as desperate.

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A female reader, Serinity United States +, writes (4 February 2008):

Serinity agony auntDifferent people find love in all different kinds of ways. Some find it when they're not looking, some find it when they are looking, sometimes love just drops into their laps. It varies so much from person to person, relationship to relationship, it could happen any where at any time. Patience is the key!

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