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If I watch gay porn and heterosexual porn, am I gay? How can I stop thinking about boys?

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Question - (22 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2008)
A male United Arab Emirates age 13-15, anonymous writes:

hi am i gay if i watch both kinds of porn or does it happen to any person and how can i stop im confused and is there anything ican do to stop thinking of boys thank you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008):

Well, I had this same problem at one time, I was confused about it, so I decided to stop messing with the porn and get to an experience, I found out I like guys and girls but not as a bisexual does, just as free flowing love. as Jen and the guy above her (sorry guy above her for not mentioning her name) It's about what makes you go. what exactly has you hot and bothered.

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A male reader, Wulfgrimm United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

I agree with Jen exept for one thing, you can like hetero and still be gay. For instance, men watch porn for the woman right? We really arnt bothered by the namked dude as long as the woman is there. Could be the same for somebody who is gay, he might like to watch hetro for the men and just not be bothered by the woman, but not sexually interested in the woman at all. Its really hard to tell.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (22 July 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntLife is about experience, when you experience, you learn and when you learn-you grow.

Wait and see what life as in store for you and listen to yourself on the way.

We all go through that period of confusion in our lives, time will help you and guide you to yourself.

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A female reader, Jen86 United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2008):

Even if you are gay there's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm guessing your age isd what the name bit says. At that age most guys are confused as they get hard ons around guys and girls. It doesn't mean anything. Which type of porn got you all hot and bothered? If its both then you might be bisexual, if its the gay porn you might be gay, if its the hetro porn then you might be straight. It might take a lot of time to discover what you really are. Even then very few people are 100% straight or 100% gay.

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