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anonymous
writes:Hey, im going through a tough time at the moment. Im confused about my sexuality and i have a girlfriend. I like her and enjoy being with her but i keep getting depressed when im with her cos im so confused about whether im gay or straight, or maybe bi! I just want to know if its normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): You may wont to brake up with her.At-least until you figure all this out.Tell her a lot of issues have come up that you dont wont to talk about,or you can go on a brake that way if you still wont to go back with her you can, but dont wait to long or els she may move on,if you dont think you'll like her with another guy then maybe you still wont to be with her and feel more comfprtable with her and not depressed. Depressions not a thing to mess with if it increases a lot you may need to talk to someone b/c its to much for you to handle alone.
Question are you nervice and uncomfortable or do you think you may be depressed.If you are you may be more tired,fatigue,and feel like you need to control some thing els in there lives b/c they cant handle there sercomstances.It can be dangerios so be carefull.And know that we care for you,thats why we give advice b/c we care.
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reader, confused1661  +, writes (2 March 2009):
Its perfectly normal and im sure that if you wanted to expirement you could anonymously at a gay club or if you came to the states i would be able to help you expirement
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 I think if you feel confused it means that you allready have proberly felt some kind of attraction towards a guy.
Choosing a girl friend or a boy friend is a choice, however who you feel attracted to is not a choice. If you like and enjoy being with your girl friend that does not mean you are in love with her. You could love her but not necessarily be in love with her or even be sexualy attracted to her. You are normal there are many young people who have conflicting feelings about there sexuality but might not always want to talk about it. You should pace yourself and try and understand your feelings without labeling yourself. Labeling yourself can confuse you in the begining of understanding your sexuality. Good luck and take care !
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Yeah it's normal, a lot of guys worry about their sexuality at one point in their life.. it could happen in your teen years. Some guys even wonder about that when they're like fifty so it's normal....
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