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writes:I'm a virgin but I think I'm ready to have sex as my boyfriend and I love each other and we have talked about it a lot and I'm on the pill now. But I was wondering, if I use tampons and I have masturbated before (but have never reached orgasm) will it still hurt? And will I still bleed? And do I definately need to get foreplay to be wet enough for it to be comfortable? We havent actually gone further than heavy making out yet but hes staying over this weekend, do you think it matters if we skip from just making out to having sex if we are ready? Or shall we take it one step at a time? xx
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (21 September 2007):
 Don't skip the making out. The best part of sex, is leading up to it, not just jump on, jump off.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 August 2007):
 OK you will probably be very nervous as it will be your first time so rather than jumping straight inti intercourse, i would just take it one step at a time that will keep you relaxed and stop you from tensing up when he tries to go inside you.
As to bleeding you may you may not , not everyone bleeds on there first time as i did not, and it may hurt a little just make sure you stay relaxed and take it slowly and you will be fine.
Take care.xx.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 If you guys have just made out I don't think he's going to skip all the bases and go for sex. My advise would be let him finger you a couple times before you hop into the sac.
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