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writes:So, my boyfriend and I split just over 2 weeks ago after a 7 month relationship. We were very in love but it ended due to a very bad fight. After the split, he and I have had small contact every day leading to today except one. We had a conversation today and he says he does not love me anymore, nor miss me or regret the break up. But, I think he's saying these things because I've been in his hair and he hasn't had a chance to miss me yet, only getting annoyed at me for pressing on and trying to get him back. We agreed to continue our conversation tomorrow, but I'm not sure about it. If I leave him be for a couple of weeks, do you think he will realise he still loves me and misses me or do you think his feelings are truly gone? I want to try to leave him alone so he can cool down, but I am afraid of no contact with him since I'm not used to it. I just want him to change his mind but with the way he is now, he won't at all. Reply to this Question
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reader, Candycane1234  +, writes (22 June 2012):
 Don't talk to him, just let him go if he comes back he's yours.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (22 June 2012):
 Why would you want to continue with this if he has told you he doesn't love you anymore? Most people do not say such things unless they are true. Coming from someone who has been in a similar situation (except my ex didn't bother to tell me he just stopped talking to me...would email if I emailed and talk to me in person, but it wasn't the same), I would move on. I know you do not want to do that...none of us ever want to do that, but you will continue to lower yourself if you try to be in contact with him. And, quite honestly, he will probably think less of you that you keep trying to win him back. If he wants you and the relationship, he will come back on his own. I would leave him alone and like AuntyEm said...plan lots of things with friends and family so you have some support.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (22 June 2012):
 I think you definitely need to give him space and no contact.
He obviously knows you still care about him so you don't need to keep repeating it to him. Leave him be for a while and try and get on with your daily life.
If he doesn't contact you again then you will know the answer.
This is the time to call your friends around you and lean on them for hugs and support.
xxxx
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reader, N91 +, writes (22 June 2012):
 Maybe, maybe not...try it and see what happens.
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