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writes:If I give in to anal will he want it all the time? He drives me wild but our last time he placed his hands around my neck i came big time. Now he scares me. Is he curious or trying to warn me?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 I fully agree with Smeedle.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Im concerned about what you have written and it is not abot giving into anal sex, it is about the hands around your neck bit that scares me as i believe it does you.
He has no right to place his hands in a threatening manner around your neck and to do so is not natural or right.
He scares you and that is not right either, yes you had an orgasm but hey that was maybe due to happen anyhow and maybe it was heightened by the fear of him hurting you but that is not good believe me and can lead on to some very not good sexual games that involve people getting badly hurt or dead!!
You need to think seriously about this relationship as you should feel comfortable enough with him to be able to say yes I will have anal sex but only once if it hurts or no I dont want it and never will.
You should not fear the man you sleep with and should not be worried that giving into him will result in you having to do something you hate.
You should not worry about saying no in case he hurts you.
All this is wrong on so many levels, so think carefully about your own safety and sanity with this man.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (26 August 2007):
 If you give into it, what says you have to do it all the time? if you want to do it, then do it, if you do it, then he wants it again, and you dont want it, it doesnt mean you have to do it again. Seriously you have to build a relatioship on mutual grounds, doing things you both want to do, not letting either of you take control, ultimately ruining the relationship. Good luck with it all.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Warn you about what? Do you want anal sex all the time? If you do, tell him. If you don't, tell him your bottom hurts. I suggest you at least try it. If you don't like it, tell him you love him but the next time he asks, tell him it hurts too much and that he's too big, that's a positive.
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